REVERENCE TIPS Day17

Saint John of the Cross – 14 December

Silence is God’s first language! WOW! How true. It maybe difficult to believe but the Silence truly has so much to reveal to those who seek a deeper meaning of Life. As long as we are lost to the word and wish to achieve great achievements, the mind rules our existence. As soon as, we realize that true living comes with withdrawing from the business of life, we will also notice the many faces of the Silence. Unfortunately, it is impossible to put it into words. Everyone experiences the depth of the Silence and communion with the Divine in the Silence differently.

I simply love the Joy and the Calmness of the Silence as it wraps itself around my being like a cozy blanket. I feel safe and embraced in the Silence of the Creator. I sense ‘his’ soothing words without hearing them.

It may be no accident that St. John of the Cross’ feast day is celebrated during the Advent season (December 14). For it is he who is best known for his moving account of the “dark night of the soul” that all seekers must experience on their way to God. He is the great mystic of Advent, who says that we are “face-to-face with Love’s own grace.” What wonderful words to ponder!

Saint John of the Cross was a 16th century reformer of the Carmelite way of life. In contrast to John’s lofty poetry, he took for himself the most menial jobs wherever he was. He served those with the most gruesome diseases before he entered monastery life. Together with Saint Teresa of Avila, he lived the primitive Rule of their Order, and paid a dear price for his commitment to reform and authentic living. Saint John of the Cross died in 1591.

REVERENCE TIPS Day16

The Feast of Saint Lucia

I love the traditions of St. Luca or St. Lucy. The feast and celebrations on the 13 December is centered on the annual struggle between light and darkness on the Northern Hemisphere. It heralds the coming of Love and Light that enables humanity to awaken from the darkness and walk Home with guidance.

A “story of a young girl bringing light in the midst of darkness no doubt held great meaning for people who, in the midst of a North Sea December, were longing for the relief of warmth and light”

Some of the interesting Festivities from around the world

Saint Lucy is one of the few saints celebrated by the overwhelmingly Lutheran Nordic people — Danes; Swedes; Finns and Norwegians but also in the United States and Canada and Italy as well as in central Europe.

St. Lucia was a Roman young woman who became a Christian martyr about 300 AD. Lucia gave her dowry to poor Roman Christians on her wedding day, was condemned as a traitor, and was to be burned at the stake. The flames did not harm her, so her executioners killed her with a sword. Years later, when Sweden was suffering from famine and despair, legend tells how St. Lucia appeared one cold and dark winter night and brought food and light to the people of Sweden. A similar thing happened in Italy. There was a famine, and families gathered in a cathedral on her feast day, Dec. 13 th, to pray. Legend says two ships showed up with wheat, Lucia at the helm. She was dressed in white with candles on her head. (St. Lucia is the patron saint for fishermen and is said to guide them home during rough seas. )

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It is speculated that the St. Lucy’s Day celebrations in Scandinavia alone may retain a few indigenous Germanic pagan, pre-Christian midwinter elements inherited from Yule.

In Croatia, Hungary and some their neighbouring countries, a popular tradition on Saint Lucy’s Day involves planting wheat grains; nowadays this serves as symbol of the new life born in Bethlehem, with a candle sometimes placed in the middle of the new plant as a symbol of the Light of Christ that Saint Lucia brings. Interestingly, it is in actuality one of the many pagan traditions found in Croatia and other Slavic nations, that once served as part of rituals to appease their many deities and fairies, which were mostly forgotten after their Christianization. Traditions such as this one stubbornly live on to this day, the deities and original meanings long forgotten, their meanings simply replaced with ones more in accordance with Christianity. The real reason wheat was and is planted at this time, or on the Day of Saint Barbara, is because the density, color and richness of the shoots will foretell how the upcoming yield will be, as well as increase the chances of it being a good one.

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At the link there is a lot of information on different interesting traditions the way people celebrate St. Luca’s day around the world. LINK HERE

REVERENCE TIPS Day15

JOY

Tonight as we light another candle on our Advent Wreath – if we do – we light the candle of JOY.

Joy empowers you. It makes you undefeatable. If you can laugh at it all you are invincible, no one can get to you, the world cannot push you or pull you.

Joy is a choice.

As we focus into Spirit more and more instead of the World that can only offer confusion and drama, we start becoming freer and lighter. The less we allow the world to hold our attention into the never-ending scary chaos, the more we enter the world of the Joy of Spirit, the more we turn towards fun stuff that make us happy.

I simply draw more … What do you do more of when you are not concerned with the state of the world? What type of activities make you happy? What brings smiles onto your face?

REVERENCE TIPS Day14

What is Advent?

Advent is a season of candlelight, reflection, and expectation. For believers, Advent represents a multi-faceted period during which to prepare for the birth of Christ, celebrate faith in and conversion to Christianity, and anticipate the eventual resurrection of the son of God. Christians traditionally pray, sing, and light an additional candle on each Advent Sunday until all of the candles are lit on the fourth Sunday. A fifth, white candle known as the Christ candle sometimes sits unlit in the center of the wreath; it is only lit on Christmas Eve.

It is the 14th day of Advent which started on the night of the 28th of November this year. It gets dark soon. It is pretty miserable most days: gloomy and damp or freezing cold and crispy. The sun hardly shines and feels as if it is dark most of the time. In central Europe where I am stationed at the moment, we cannot complain. In Alaska or northern Sweden, sun does not even rise for months. It is a miserable time and I am not surprised that most of us cannot wait for the Winter Solstice to arrive on the 21st of December bringing more day light with it.

Last year I bought tons of ‘plastic’ candles that run on battery. I keep them on all day and night to give myself a positive boost of ‘light’. This year I am realizing that there is not much I can do about either the weather or the darkness. All I can do is spend my time with enjoyable and fun things to lift my mood.

Yesterday I shared about a Hallmark film – Let it snow – that lists different fun traditions around Christmas time. As I was watching the film I realized that all we need is to have fun. We are attached to gloom and doom. We recycle our human drama daily in the shape of wars, epidemics, personal misfortunes, and more. Instead we could just have fun.

The drama will never cease! We, humans, are tragedy generators – read Romeo and Juliet? – so it is simply unavoidable to have some kind of disaster going on in our lives all the time. So, the best we can do is to have fun nevertheless. As opposed to crying over our misfortunes all the time, we could defy our fate and find things that lifts our spirit and make us smile.

I am going to make some fun ART today! 🙂 A funny snail maybe! 🙂

What is my tip for today?

MAKE YOURSELF SMILE!

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When it gets colder, the days get shorter I start watching Hallmark Christmas movies. I love them. They are so bad that they are good! 🙂 They are cozy an comforting. I wrap myself around with my duvet, make some hot chocolate then sit on my sofa and watch these heavenly sweet movies endlessly.

This one is one of my favorite. Not only because it a great story of change at Christmas but because the movie introduces many different Christmas traditions from around the world.

I will write more about those traditions that I plan to try this year. 🙂

What is my tip for today?

Watch movies and read books that warm your heart, that make you feel the Spirit of the Season: Love is all around! 🙂

REVERENCE TIPS Day12

I felt like doing something fun today. I remembered reading about funny pre-Christmas Traditions. There are a lot. One of these is celebrated in Hungary too. It is called St. Nicholas Day which is on the 6th of December. It is a fun day or morning more like since Santa puts candies and small toys into kids socks over the night of the 5th December.

I did not find any interesting or funny celebration for the 9th of December. So I created an Advent Calendar with Sweet and Encouraging messages.

I hope you will like them. Just click on the number of the day you want to read.

If you want you can create your own here! 🙂

REVERENCE TIPS Day11

Peace of Mind

How to have peace of mind? Change your mind!

This video below is beyond enlightening. It is practical and easy to understand, though understanding is not enough! According to Dr Bruce Lipton: understanding a concept will not make it real, but practice will!

Though I am not a fan of mind-programming, I think they are really good as a starting point. There is a place beyond the mind but getting there often takes ‘dealing’ with the mind’s limitations first.

I think that the mind needs to get to the place where it is open enough to be open to ideas and can allow the rest of the ‘structure’ to engage in not-necessarily-logical activities.

What is my tip today?

How about watching this video and choosing one activity to repeat – no matter how senseless it may feel at the time – until you start feeling/seeing some change. Look at what area of your life you would like to see some change and create an action that contradicts that belief. Repeat it Repeat it again … and again … Then see what happens.

My example: I have been experimenting with a belief that says that people are ignorant and dangerous. The ‘contradicting’ sentence goes like this: I love people as they are, people love me as I am. What I have experimenting with is repeating this sentence over and over silently to myself while I am shopping in a big shopping mall. I have been having very interesting experiences!! I will tell you more! 🙂

REVERENCE TIPS Day10

Please be still

He says, “Be still, and know that I am God;
    I will be exalted among the nations,
    I will be exalted in the earth.”

Psalm 46:10

It is really hard to stay still. As I observe people, the inner mental chatter is almost audible. I am just the same. As soon as I sit in meditation attempting to become still and centered in the Silence of my own heartbeat, my mind rushes in with a marching band blocking the way to ‘be’. My mind always has something to say. She likes being clever. When she isn’t, she is either frantic or dealing with some kind of pain. There is always a program running.

DRAWING makes me still. If I want to experience a sense of stillness, I need to focus intently. I know it sounds self-defeating but it actually works. I can concentrate and get lost in drawing or creating something so much that I experience flow and inner stillness. At a place, where I am not aware of my mind’s constant chatter any more.

What is my tip for today?

Do something that gives you a sense of stillness. May it be meditating, praying, drawing, walking, gazing … experiment with it. 🙂

REVERENCE TIPS Day9

What is Peace for me?

Yesterday, I shared a list of ‘meanings’ of Peace and invited you to choose one and contemplate on it this week.

  • freedom from disturbance; tranquility
  • a state of security or order within a community provided for by law or custom
  • freedom from disquieting or oppressive thoughts or emotions
  • harmony in personal relations
  • a pact or agreement to end hostilities between those who have been at war or in a state of enmity
  • to be, become, or keep silent or quiet

“freedom from disquieting or oppressive thoughts or emotions” 

is the definition of PEACE that I wish to contemplate on this week.

This morning as I was meditating I noticed that there was zero peace in me. My mind was rushing around like crazy, digging up the oldest of memories of fear and pain. “Great!” I thought to myself. “I was hoping for some ‘peace time’, not ‘crazy time’!” Then I remembered this quote below:

Agree with God, and be at peace; in this way
good will come to you.

Job 22:21

I believe that God is a presence within me, not ‘someone’ outside of me. So ‘agreeing with God’ means to me that I allow myself the experiences I am going through without fighting or judging them.

So, my first step towards my definition of Peace (please see above) is ALLOWING and BEING WITH IT. I simply accepted that my mind (ego) was freaked out and needed to run in circles to make sure that she felt safe. It went on for about an hour. As I was simply observing, my rushing thoughts slowly dissipated and calmed down. Eventually, I did find some peace in my meditation time this morning. I am grateful for being reminded that ‘agreeing’ with what is the quickest way to Peace.


What is my TIP for today?

Just agree with what is, even if it is uncomfortable. Every moment passes eventually. Listen to this lovely piece of music to help you get into the flow …

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THE WEEK OF PEACE

Tonight is the last night of Hanukkah, the Festival of Lights. Looking back this week has been an adventure. 🙂 It always amazes me how far a little extra focus goes!

In short the first week of Advents (and the week of the Festival of Lights) made me aware of some of my deep seated patterns of ‘productivity’ and inability to take time out and just chill. I also realized the importance of ‘imperfection’ and allowing things to unfold as they wish without me trying to control them for ‘best results’. Hahaha! As if I knew what that is!

All in the name of Faith and Hope. Being focused into Faith in the unknown and developing a sense of Hope for good made it possible for me to have this amazing week of discoveries and healing from some rusty old stuff.

Tonight we step into the second week of Advent: Peace. I look forward to experimenting with a sense of Peace.

My Tipp for today is to contemplate on the many meaning of the word PEACE. Choose one that grabs your attention and think in what ways you would like to live that element of Peace.

  • freedom from disturbance; tranquility
  • a state of security or order within a community provided for by law or custom
  • freedom from disquieting or oppressive thoughts or emotions
  • harmony in personal relations
  • a pact or agreement to end hostilities between those who have been at war or in a state of enmity
  • to be, become, or keep silent or quiet

“freedom from disquieting or oppressive thoughts or emotions” – This is the one I will contemplate on.